Please welcome Mystery Money Man as our guest for today’s Financial Literacy Chronicles interview here on Enwealthen.
Please tell me a little bit about yourself and your blog.
I launched Mystery Money Man in August 2016, as a way to document my thoughts on consumerism and personal finance, and hopefully provide a resource for individuals and families who are wanting more financial freedom.
The funny thing is, my experience with blogging has been such that I think I’ve learned more than anything I’ve been able to teach anyone!
There’s nothing you can sell me that can make me happy
Career-wise, I’m a financial professional, and have helped thousands of families with their finances over the years. That experience has taught me that for the vast majority of people, their greatest roadblock to financial success is themselves, more so than whether they happened to choose the right investment.
In short, most people need to begin by shifting their money mindset.
Can you share your most impactful money memory from your childhood?
My brother and I grew up in a single parent home, where our mother worked very hard to make ends meet. When it came to money, she was constantly making tough choices, and there was a lot of sacrifice. Looking back though, I never felt as though I went without. In fact, I recall this amazing childhood, full of rich experiences.
Nowadays, we live in a consumer culture which bombards us with the message that good parents don’t deny their children anything. In order for kids to become all they can be, they require the best education, access to an unlimited range of expensive activities, the newest in technology, you name it.
As a parent, I often draw on those childhood memories, understanding that while I may not have the same financial constraints we had when I was young, I don’t need to cave in to the pressure of mass marketing for my kids to have a fulfilling childhood.
Simply put, kids don’t need more stuff from their parents, they need their love, their time and their attention.
We all receive financial advice from people in our lives. What’s the most interesting or useful financial advice you’ve received from your community?
I’ve become even more frugal since starting my blog, the result of reading and learning from other personal finance bloggers. It’s an incredible community.
I have several personal finance books I regularly give to friends and family. What are your 3 favorite fundamental personal finance books you often gift to others?
Now that is a great gift idea….that I have never used! Haha. I’m really not creative when it comes to gifts. I usually resort to stuffing cash or a gift card in an envelope.
What financial literacy education did you receive in school? If you had a magic wand, what would you change to improve that?
In short, not much. I’ve seen the enormous opportunity first hand though.
A couple of years ago, I had a chance to deliver a financial literacy course to grade 8 kids on behalf of an organization called Junior Achievement. It was a wonderful experience, the class were super engaged by the concepts of budgeting and saving, and the importance of making smart choices with money.
There’s no reason these types of programs can’t be in every classroom. It’s all about planting seeds, and instilling knowledge that children can carry into adulthood.
There are so many blogs on the internet, what are 3 of your favorite blogs that instill financial literacy, either by word or action?
There are SO many great personal finance blogs out there, but in sticking to the topic of financial literacy, I would mark my ballot for the following:
Mr. Money Mustache. It’s almost cliche to name this one, but it’s a popular choice for good reason. MMM’s blog will transform not only how you think about money, but the way you view consumption, while forcing you to question many of the lifestyle habits you take for granted.
Learning to live a frugal life can teach you more about money than you’ve ever imagined. The Frugalwoods blog conveys the power of frugal living more than any blog I’ve read.
Financial literacy is not just about saving money. Nowadays, it’s important to understand how to develop multiple income streams, or side hustles. It’s about breaking the 9 to 5 mindset and taking control of your financial future. Grant, over at Millennial Money, has built something that’s so much more than just a blog. It’s an amazing resource, packed with great money making advice. Very inspiring!
kids don’t need more stuff from their parents, they need their love, their time and their attention
I like to keep inspirational quotes around the house to remind me of what’s important. Do you have a favorite money quote you use to inspire your financial life?
Off the top of my head, I can think of two:
“There’s nothing you can sell me that can make me happy” — Jon Foreman.
A quote by one of my favorite songwriters, this one is pinned to my Twitter profile page. The excessive consumerism of our western culture drives me crazy, and this quote pretty much sums up my attitude towards the mass marketing machine.
“Don’t fall in love with a house until you’re living in it.” — my Mom
I was reminded of this one the other day, when reading (and lamenting) about the concept of the “forever home”.
It’s a great quote, and besides, it’s my Mom, how can I not love it. : )
Thanks for contributing to the Financial Literacy Chronicles here on Enwealthen, Mystery Money Man!
Mystery Money Man and his wife have been married for 18 years this summer, and have three kids (two teenagers) and 2 dogs. He’s also a songwriter and music producer, loves hockey and baseball, and is always up for an epic road trip. Follow along on Instagram!
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